Saturday, December 29, 2007

crazy generation !!!

       When we wake up guys!! really it’s a shame on us to lie to ourselves and do not care about anything in that life as if our parents like a machine ,who have no time to thier own business;however,we have to do something for them and I’m talking here about whom just sleep without any plan to their life and wait for fathers or mathers to supply them with money .I don’t mean here to make yourselves as an adult and do not order any help from your family,but what I mean here is to help them as much as you can.Besides,to do what they tell you and do not  do what they dislike ,again I say that is not mean to lose your personality and become like “something”!!I know now you’re surprise and your mind says what is he talking about?? yes, it’s right and I am writting now beacuse of this bad habits taht teenagers treat thier parents.
       So we have to ask:why teenager feel anger when thier family punishes them?? in other word what is going on in the world to see that huge gap between family and thier teenagers ?? realy there are a lot of reasons,but the begest one is media and technology where child and teenager can make their secret life far from the observation of their parents ;also with technology the internet becomes our new father and guide so that many teenagers do not close from thier family and if you ask me I say that due to the adults whom dive in thier business and forget children and tenagers and let them in front of that wolves’ world without any vaccines(I don’t mean it as a physical thing of cours!!).I am not as a psychologist but I try to find resolution to our problems that go bigger day after day.
       In kenitra for exapmle you can find  these kinds of teenagers.Just go someday to Mcdonalds to see what I want to say ,realy it’s a horrible fact to do not recognize your teen and child and let’s face it ,this is a ridiculous and foolish thing ,please we have to try not bury our adolescents because they are realy our nature resourse not money etc.
Also we have to be near of them when they need your assistance!! so what should we do ? in taht case it’s better to read the books which focus on teenager and watching on shows that concentrate of adolescense issues ans so on.
try to educate your teen taht Isalm is very important and has all solution of his problems.
        and last but not least you’ve to make a conversation between you and your teen especially about “what is sex”? 
or how can I jump teenager duration without mistakes and so on……….
                                                    Peace be upon you;good lucke teenagers of Islam and morocco.
       

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